SEX Women and Money never make a healthy cocktail, Wrong! I didn't know how much Sex, and love had to do with Wealth and Success beside mostly ruin until I was spoke to Chris a friend of mine who is an accomplished businessman and entrepreneur in Kampala.
Chris once shared with me a challenge he was facing. He said he and his wife had just had a baby and since then the sex had gone from good to bad, to not there at all, he even intimated how he fantasized about having sex with other women besides his wife.
I my head i kept saying, been their done that, bought the T-shirt and moved on. But what he said next shook me up, " The less intimate i feel with my wife, the less creative and sharp I get at work, I can't keep my head in anything i am doing, i keep going back and forth, I have also noticed that my relationship with myself has deteriorated not to mention my relationship with God."
The most perplexing part was that he felt that his mojo was hidden in his wifes, granny panties which he wasn't so keen to take off, but he and I knew that if he was going to be anything like he had been before he would have to stop watching porn and go make sweet sweet love to his wife.
We started a 7 week program that was to rekindle the passion again in his love life and eventually his business. At the end of the program which took deliberate effort on his part and lots of support on mine as well as learning, this guy was back with a bang, spring in step, cash in the bank and deals to cut, he was living it, surprisingly his wife was equally happy.
One day a friend of ours asked him why he was so happy ( this friend didn't know what he had gone through) Chris' uncharacteristic and proud answer was: "Happy wife, Happy Life".
I am going to share in 2 posts, why the woman isn't happy and in effect the man isn't bringing the money home.
Chris once shared with me a challenge he was facing. He said he and his wife had just had a baby and since then the sex had gone from good to bad, to not there at all, he even intimated how he fantasized about having sex with other women besides his wife.
I my head i kept saying, been their done that, bought the T-shirt and moved on. But what he said next shook me up, " The less intimate i feel with my wife, the less creative and sharp I get at work, I can't keep my head in anything i am doing, i keep going back and forth, I have also noticed that my relationship with myself has deteriorated not to mention my relationship with God."
The most perplexing part was that he felt that his mojo was hidden in his wifes, granny panties which he wasn't so keen to take off, but he and I knew that if he was going to be anything like he had been before he would have to stop watching porn and go make sweet sweet love to his wife.
We started a 7 week program that was to rekindle the passion again in his love life and eventually his business. At the end of the program which took deliberate effort on his part and lots of support on mine as well as learning, this guy was back with a bang, spring in step, cash in the bank and deals to cut, he was living it, surprisingly his wife was equally happy.
I am going to share in 2 posts, why the woman isn't happy and in effect the man isn't bringing the money home.
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